窮對小朋友有甚麼影響？
窮對小朋友有甚麼影響?
生活環境惡劣影響小朋友心理成長認知發展，對小朋友的社交技巧有嚴重影響，知識水平低到在別人的下面，將來適應社會和找工作做都會很困難。你窮就不要生，不要害下一代。窮子女要捱窮是誰造成的?是誰的錯?答案其實很簡單,就是他們的父母。很想要小朋友的家長，卻因身體問題不能受孕。不負責任的父母，卻生了很多個出來，卻不負照顧責任，實在很諷刺。
中國的父母很多都是禍害。
窮，影響生活質素，缺乏物質生活。窮，吃不好。沒有錢，就買不到足夠和有營養的食物，亦不能出街食，基本本能欲望「食」都滿足唔到，真慘。食物品質差、味道差、味道難食、份量小、營養價值低。人地用一百元煮出來的飯餸的味道，是你二十五元不能比較的。窮，穿不好。沒有靚衣服穿，會比人笑佢，或者投下奇異的目光打量他，歧視他，使他有自悲感，自尊心受創，自信心低。阿媽媽買d衫褲又老土肉酸核特醜樣，為左平，買d大大個英文字母和公仔圖案的衫。著出街被人笑和歧視。佢唔會買girodano baleno 的淨色T恤，因為貴，所以佢會買大大個公字圖案的衫你著，唔理好唔好看，總之要平。你要知道一件衫係幾貴，如果著來著去都是殘舊和不漂亮的衣服，係會令小朋友自卑的。窮，住不好。居住面積小，連轉個身都有困難，沒有獨立房間，很大個都要和家長睡在一起，有身體接觸,很擠迫，住得不舒服。食，不開心。住，不開心。
他們不會買微波爐和電磁爐，因為他們唔識用，佢地不懂怎樣用微波爐和電磁爐煮野食，當然他們不會知道其背後所使用的科學原理，卻誤以為微波爐幅射會食死人，所以抗拒買和用微波爐。他們的文化和知識水平極低，不懂上網和打中文字，又不會去圖書館借書看。你有個咁冇用既父母，實在是很慘的。 冇錢冇朋友做。所以如果你冇錢，就等如冇朋友。你沒有零用錢就等如你很難跟人建立起社交來。
我的媽媽沒有教過我任何基本社交知識,所以我在識朋友上遇到很困難,基本上冇朋友。我相信不只我一個,那些以為天生天養,或者扔個細路獨留家中的人,你不能祈望他們會教子女甚麼東西,因為他們根本自己都唔識,仲點會教仔女關於社會上的知識呢?做窮人子女十分慘呀。沒有朋友，不開心。
那些小朋友，你們大個了不用孝順你的父母，不用給家用你的父母，因為它給了你痛苦，它給你住在一個狹小的劏房，為甚麼居住在這麼細的地方還要把你生下來受苦呢？那些虐打體罰的、精神虐待的、疏忽照顧獨留家中的、沒有零用錢給的、住劏房的、賭錢的、去旅行的、不教育的、只管生不管教的，漠不關心的不給買電腦的、不給買手機的、不給買上網的、不給買衣服的父母，子女們通通不用孝順，通通不須給家用父母。他們無視你的存在,你們也可無視他們,不用養他們了,因為他要你受痛苦。
窮，沒有錢買電腦，智能電話，固網或流動數據上網。你計一計的話，會發覺呢幾樣野加埋係幾咁貴，差不多等如普通家庭月入的10%以上。窮父母是沒有能力提供資訊科技給小朋友的。當其他小朋友開心地上網、
和朋友WHATSAPP、上YOUTUBE聽歌看短片，你卻沒能力提供，小朋友會很落後。上網可以用GOOGLE找到資料和知識，你的小朋友卻冇機會接觸這些，造成資訊鴻溝。學校很多報告都是要用電腦做功課的，也要用到上網，你沒電腦你怎做？不要跟我說去圖書館，要預約並每日只准用一小時，十分不便，講呢句說話的人是白痴的。分組時冇人肯同你一組，得番個細路被全班人笑佢冇組，要老師夾硬編你入組，你說幾難受？這傷害小朋友自尊心。沒有智能電器，不開心。
學校不是買了書就算的，有很多雜費要交，以前只要熟讀課本便能過關,而家要全透位學習,如果你冇錢，便冇得上任何興趣班(我認為一個興趣班就可，多未必有用)，沒有任何一個課外活動，不懂說話技巧，接觸人的機會會少了，便會變成毒撚。冇錢出街，便會變成毒撚。你的小朋友不能和其他小朋友有共同話題(如討論區的HOT TOPIC)或溝通，人際關係處理不好，會受到排斥，冇人肯同你做朋友，成為被欺凌對象。造成陰影。難道這是你想見到嗎？被人孤立，不開心。
養一個仔要400萬，如沒錢，請你戴上安全套。
我的父母不是冇錢，只是錢用在不適當的地方：如爛賭(這很普遍，很多人的父母都是很爛賭的)和去旅行。父還騙政府錢在大陸買了個單位，卻從來不給我零用錢。
你們不要再說有爸媽就代表好。不好的爸媽多的很。他們喜歡賭馬。給我極差生活質素。我童年極之不開心。又冇零用錢用。
窮，通常父母為了搵食，文化亦不高，不懂教導子女任何知識或道理，不會帶子女到圖書館借書或到書局買書，有些還會獨留兒童在家，疏忽照顧虐待。
你話窮，可以到圖書館借書學嘢。不過你答對了一半，有部份書(題材較特別的)圖書館一定不會入(小姓奴、向西村上春樹)的書，你買不起，所以你比別人看少很多書。
窮，沒有零用錢，小朋友甚麼東西都買不起，永遠自閉在家中。須知道，社交是要一定的金錢支持，你的小朋友冇錢，識不到人，不懂得社交技巧，冇朋友，對小朋友的成長造成嚴重影響。再嚴重的話影響他在社會的謀生和生存能力。
清貧弟子輸在起跑線上,注定其成長路會比其他小朋友坎坷曲折。他們沒有被教導關於社會上的知識和概念,注定出來社會會撞板。
美國虐兒數字每年300萬宗。台灣虐兒數字每年10000宗。香港虐兒數字每年1000宗。香港虐待配偶數字更高，每年3000宗。中國留守兒童人數有5000萬，留守兒童也等於虐待，相關文章可以百度一下。
請你不要生窮三代,製造跨代貧窮,造成傳窮接代。
生孩子前要預算財政，居住地方，誰人照顧小孩等，如果生了小孩，媽媽不做工湊仔，收入會縮小，財政壓力增加；兩個人做工，就要想請工人還是請親人照顧。多一個小孩，衣食住行的支出就會倍數增長，奶粉錢到之後的飯錢，係幾千蚊幾千蚊咁用。居住地方的話，搬出去住，你計算一下租個單位要幾多錢，好少少的都要八千至一萬。如果你選擇劏房，都要三四千，窄得很，我嚴重不建議你住劏房走去生仔，因為實在太擠迫和沒有私人空間了。
What is the effects poverty to children?
What is the effects poverty to children?
The living environment affects childrens mental, psycological, and developement of children. It is harmful to childrens’ interpersonel skills. And knowledges is so little. Can not compare to a better living environemnts child. They will have difficulty accomodate the society and hard to find a good job. If you are poor, then make no children. Don’t do harms to next generations. Who is responsible for the pain the child endure. The answer is simple. The poorest parents. Some couples love children. But their health cannot do so. But unresponsible parents can born many children like laid a eggs by a chicken. It is so unfair.
Poor. Affect living conditions. No enjoy of material. Poor. Can not eat better. No money cannot buy enough and nutritional foods. Cannot eat outsides. The traditonal desire for food cannot be succes. The qualtiy, taste, quantity, nutrition are all small. Poor. No good clothes. No clothes will be laughed by people. Make a poor eyes on you. Descrimintate you. Make you low esteem. Your mother buy you ugly clothes in order to save as much money as she can. If your clothers is broken or ugly. You have low esteems. Poor. Cannot live better. The room for you to live is small. No self rooms. You need to sleep with your mothers in the same beds although you were grow up. Have physical contacts. Unpleasant.
They don’t buy microwave oven or couduction heaters. Because they don’t know how to use. They don’t know the scientific pricipal facts of that machines. They believes microwave will make people cancer. So they don’t buy.
Their culture and knowledges is low. They are stupid. They don’t borrow books from library. They don’t know computer, typing, and internet. You have a useless parents is very poor.
No money. No friends. If you no money, equals to no friends. You have no petty cash means you are difficult to make relationships with others.
My mothers teachs me nothing. Making me difficult to form relationships with people. I believe not only me, but also many parents believe child can live himself and grow up without having support. They will let their children alone in home. It is criminal to do so. You can’t expect they will teach their children. Because they don’t know either. They will not teach knowledge of socity. Being a poor family children is very poor. No friends. Unhappy.
To those unlucky children who were born to poverty because their parents are poor. When you grow up. You do not need to give back money. Because they gave you pain. They made you live in a cage which is very small. Why do they born you? They abuse them. both physical and mental and psycologically. No petty cash. Use all his money to gamble and travels. No education. No money to buy computer and smartphones. No money to pay for interet fees. No good looking clothers. No need to repay the money to them. They ignore you. You also ignore them. Because they make you painfully live.
Poor. No money to buy computer, smartphone, broadband, data plan. If you calculate. The sum of those expenditure is compose a 10% of you household income. Poor parents have no ability to provide IT to their children. When other childrens surf the net, whatsapping, go youtube website to look for videos and songs. You provide nothings. It will be lost to the worlds. Google can find information and knowledges. If you have no facility and software and hardware will make him having IT gaps. Homeworks need to be done by computer and also the use of internet. If you have no computer, how can you finish? Use library computers? It need pre booking and limit to one hours per days per sessions. Unusefriendly. People who says this sentence is stupid. In group projects learning. No classmates want to accept you. Your son needs to be forced into a group will be laughed by whole class’s classmates.
School is not only buy him textbooks. There is so many petty expenditures. Your sons have little talking skills. Little chances to react with people. He will be isolated. No common topics be talked with others classmates. Bad interpesonal relationship. Discrimanated by others. No one wants to friend with your children. Being bullied. Left him unhappy shadows. Do you want to see these?
The expenditure of raising a child is 4millions HKD or 500000USD. It is said by Lee Lai Shan in a bank advertisements. If you have no money, please wear Condom before you make love.
Poor. Generally your parents run for workings very long hours. Their culture is low. They don’t know how to teach their children. They won’t bring their children to library or bookstroe. Some of them abuse their children by letting him alone in home without people look after.
Poor. No petty cash. Children can hardly buy things. They will be like autism. You should know that social with others needs support of money. Your children have no money, cannot meet others and make friends. Will have serious affect to his development. Making him difficult to find job and live in society.
Poorest childrens are loser in the starting lines. They have difficult roads to walk. They will bound to the wall when in society laters.
Don’t make poor third generation. Don’t make cross-poor-generation.
You need to calculate the financial situation before you have child. Prepare living places. Who looks after them. If born a son. Mothers no jobs because she looks after the children. Then financial pressure will bigger. If you two works, you need to hire one domestic helper to look after your children. Will be a big money. The more the child. The more on clothes, food, live. Your need to calculate the rents of finding a bigger house. I do not advise you to have children if you cannot afford a bigger flats. It is so crowded and no privacy. I do not advise you to have children if you already cannot feed up you ownself.
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